The 5 Love Languages

penah dengar tak 5 love languages? haa. kalau belum, ni nak share. ari tu ade la baca

kat forum budak2 utp ni pasal mende ni. kat section Cupid's Corner (dalam hati ade taman gitu)

so rase tertarik nak share mende ni. copy paste from The 5 Love Languages

What if you could say or do just the right thing guaranteed to make that special someone feel loved? The secret is learning the right love language! Millions of couples have learned the simple way to express their feelings and bring joy back into marriage: The 5 Love Languages, Dr. Gary Chapman’s New York Times bestseller!

• Words of Affirmation

  Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.

• Quality Time

  In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

• Receiving Gifts

  Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures.

• Acts of Service

  Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.

• Physical Touch

  This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.
  
  

pastu bile tengok kat bawah tu ade plak assessment. so try la kan. xtau nak amik category

ape so pilih la for wives. before aku amik test tu aku da agak result dia sbb bile bc description

terus terfikir. tapi saje nak amik jugak. so secara keseluruhannya aku dapat:

Love Language Scores:
9 Words of Affirmation
6 Quality Time
0 Receiving Gifts
5 Acts of Service
10 Physical Touch

evaluation die plak based on this:

The highest score indicates your primary love language (the highest score is 12). It's not uncommon to have two high scores, although one language does have a slight edge for most people. That just means two languages are important to you. The lower scores indicate those languages you seldom use to communicate love and which probably don't affect you very much on an emotional level.

and aku rase major love language for my other half:

acts of service & quality time

sebab he dont mind spending some time despite all the busy schedules

kalau tetibe aku mintak tolong, memang laju je. takde hesitate da.

pastu kalau pegi trip, he's the one yang excited bangun awal pagi.

of course la aku excited jugak. quality time pun penting what :)

tapi in my love language, it's enough kalau that person just

randomly text me siang2 hari ke, something like:

"i miss u"

bak kate orang, terus terbang di awangan.

aku post ni bukan lah sebab tak bersyukur ke ape. aku just nak

kongsi camne aku overcome diff love language ni. jawapan die

senang. each time ktorg spend mase same2, sume pertolongan

yang die bagi, tak kisah la kecik ke besar, aku compile and convert

mende tu as "non-verbal i love you"

banyak lagi ak nak merepek actly. tapi da ngantuk. nite :)